ITS ACTIONS AND NOT INTENTIONS THAT DEFINES US

What we are today is as a result of our actions of yesterday! And what we repeatedly do defines as true character .

I recently had a conversation with someone who told me that the reason behind her baby fathers act of irresponsibility is of his step mum's making ! Out of curiosity I asked : can u give me a run down of his day today activity: she continues thus: (1) WAKES UP BY 8:30AM everyday (2) GOES OUT TO HANG WITH HIS UNEMPLOYED FRIENDS (3) LIES TO BORROW LITTLE SHE HAS (4) COMPLAINS ABOUT EVERYTHING AND DO NOTHING TO MAKE THINGS BETTER (5) REALLY LOVING WHEN ON A GOOD MOOD AND ALSO VERY GOOD IN BED LOL. My response to number five is you guys still do it in your  mother inlaws two tiny rooms ? Under her nose ? She said yes with boldness! Added body nobi firewood! Hummm!.

This reminded me of a post I read online that says : there is nothing that confuses a woman most as an irresponsible man that is really good in bed Hashanah! That's useless anyway!

I told her that from what she has said so far, your baby father is in the prison of his own making ! There is no witchcraft anywhere , he needs to set his priority right and start working hard as his fellow men to make ends meet . Coz the people we associate with and what we constantly do defines our tomorrow. We reap what we sow! And obvious he has been sowing nothing how can he blames another for his empty harvest ! We Need to take responsibility of what we have been doing wrong in other to correct it .